Getting out of your Comfort Zone
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

Getting out of your Comfort Zone

On a brisk autumn Sunday morning, I love love love cozying up in my big comfy blanket (which I call "the vortex" because it sucks you in and you never leave), laying my head on fluffy pillows, and bathing in the aroma of a freshly brewed cup of coffee. This is my definition of comfort and I never want to leave. Actually wait, that's a lie. I would leave.

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The Accountable Friend-An Update
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

The Accountable Friend-An Update

Last week I wrote about my friend Paul who had recently won a contest in which he is entitled to a free month membership to a fitness bootcamp.

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The Accountable Friend
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

The Accountable Friend

Do you have a friend who just can't stay on track with their goals? How many times has this friend told you that they are putting their best foot forward in making this monumental step only to fail at it weeks later?

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What Beyonce's Essay on Body Acceptance Taught me about Self-Compassion
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

What Beyonce's Essay on Body Acceptance Taught me about Self-Compassion

On any given day, if you were to glance at my phone, you would see that I almost always have a picture of Beyonce on my wallpaper. The nature of the wallpaper changes based on my mood or on my current mindset. When I took my first scary step into private practice, I had this as my wallpaper:

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Installing Resilience
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

Installing Resilience

It's one thing to say that you have gone through a life filled with many obstacles and challenges, but it's another to actually learn from these experiences. It's easy to be stuck in a victim stance, but it takes much more effort to rise from hardship.

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Music Therapy for Free!
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

Music Therapy for Free!

Some of my clients are very familiar with my term, "Adele-ing". I usually use this term for when clients are going through breakups and are doing whatever they can to distract themselves from the pain that comes with losing a relationship.

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Emotions and your Body
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

Emotions and your Body

With Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) being the main modality that I use to inform my practice, I often get caught up with how our thoughts can influence our mood and behaviour

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Dealing with Grief
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

Dealing with Grief

Grief is an emotion of deep sorrow that is felt especially when we have lost someone to death. It doesn't, however, have to be limited to death.

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The Power of Positivity
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

The Power of Positivity

Last week in session, I noticed that I was bombarding my clients with the idea of finding the silver lining in their lives. I'm not sure if it was because I chose to view client issues through the lens of Positive Psychology or because it seemed to be fitting (or it could've been both) but it led to some interesting conversations around the power of positivity.

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Thoughts on FOMO
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

Thoughts on FOMO

Chances are that you have at some point. If you're not sure as to what it is, FOMO is this uncomfortable feeling that arises within us when we feel like we are either being left out or we compare our lives to others and feel that we are lacking in some way.

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Shame and Guilt: Same but Different
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

Shame and Guilt: Same but Different

Recently, the topic of shame and guilt has become more and more frequent in my sessions in the last few weeks and I thought it would be helpful to share my little nuggets of knowledge on the topic. Feelings of shame and guilt can sometimes become so strong that it can dictate the way we behave and how we view ourselves.

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Giving Yourself a Hug
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

Giving Yourself a Hug

Let me set the stage for you. You're sitting on the bus on your way to work when suddenly you feel your heart racing. Your palms are sweaty and your hands are shaking.

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How to Dive into Your Emotions
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

How to Dive into Your Emotions

For us to deal with these painful emotions, we have to remember that, like anything in life, emotions are impermanent- what you feel now is not what you'll feel forever.

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Diving into your Emotions
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

Diving into your Emotions

If you've never watched the movie and have no idea about what I'm talking about, all you have to know is that this movie personifies our emotions as little characters in our heads.

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#PressforProgress
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

#PressforProgress

Every year on March 8th, women and men across the globe are invited to celebrate women's achievements throughout history. It is also a call-to-action where each new year brings a different theme for progress.

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The New You that Comes with Every Storm
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

The New You that Comes with Every Storm

Face it, we are all struggling in our own little way. We all are in the middle of a storm. Even if we had just gotten out of one, there is another one waiting to strike. To me, life is all about progression. It's knowing that the person who is waking up this morning is different from the one who woke up the day before.

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May I Have your Attention Please?-Intrusive Thoughts
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

May I Have your Attention Please?-Intrusive Thoughts

Intrusive thoughts are those pesky little ideas, images, or voices that pervade your present mind and derails your focus and attention. I can't even count the number of times that I am bothered by my wandering mind.

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Thoughts While Meditating
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

Thoughts While Meditating

Many do not know this, but my New Year's Resolution this year was to become comfortable in silence. I have always been accustomed to living in a fast paced, loud, environment that anything less than this made me uncomfortable.

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Know Your Worth
Juliann Rasanayagam Juliann Rasanayagam

Know Your Worth

Last week I was in a funk. This usually happens when I have a lot of down time and little energy. I thrive on being busy and constantly on the move, especially when it has to do with my career. Like many of us, I am very career oriented and (as much as I hate to admit it), most of my waking minutes are dedicated to progressing myself in that area of my life.

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